I met this really nice guy over a month ago on the bus. He was intelligent, well-spoken and a nice guy. We talked the entire time on the bus and when I finally got off, he asked for my number! So, I called my mom really excited and told her that he asked for my number, thinking he would call me within the next few days to go out. He didn’t call me until this past Wednesday over a MONTH Later! He said that he had been busy with work, but he wanted to know if I wanted to come out on a group date with him and his friends. Well, I am totally not ready for a date with all his friends. Plus, none of my friends would be able to go. My hair isn’t done, I don’t have nice clothes and I’m not going to meet with him looking a mess!
He asked me on Wednesday and I wasn’t positive if he was asking me to come or not, so I didn’t say definitely I could come, but I did say I wasn’t busy on Friday. But, tonight when he said that I could bring friends and none of my friends were available to come, I PANICKED. I didn’t want to be the only female there with a bunch of guys…HOW AWKWARD!
So, I called him and asked him if he’d like to have coffee on Monday. He said he works all day so if we had coffee it would probably have to be on a weekend. So, I said…okay well give me a call if you want to have coffee and I talked a bit more and said goodbye. Now, I am scared that I might have blown it with this really nice guy and I’M REALLY UPSET! I like him, but it wasn’t a good night, I wasn’t ready and I don’t want to go on a group date with his friends and just me…not at all. I want his attention to myself.
Did I mess up or do you think he’ll call back?