Fear of Black Pussy

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My new favorite erotik author, Scottie Lowe has written an article entitled “Society Told Me a Secret.” It’s about Black women’s vaginas and our bodies and how society portrays our most private and sacred part of our identity. Check it out when you get a chance.

Here are my thoughts. We all are aware of the hositility towards Black women. We all remember John Mayer’s arrogance and his “white supremacist dick,” which is “too good,” to ever touch a Black pussy. We all heard the ignorance and desperation of the white female on the show “Real Misstresses of Atlanta,” who proudly proclamed that “nobody wants Black pussy,” and “all the Black men want her.” Real or not, those were the words she spoke and her statements have been echoed many times before.

Why is it whenever I go on a forum and I come across a topic on Black women, someone always brings up Black women’s vaginas? It’s usually men who bring up Black women’s vaginas, which is interesting, but women do it sometimes too. Comments vary from the negative to positive to the bizarre. Some of the negative comments can be any of the following, “black pussy looks like roast beef,” “black pussy smells bad,” “I don’t want an afro down there,” “what color is it, purple?” “No one wants Black pussy.” Then, ofcourse you’ve got the minority of positive, if you can call it that, comments about Black women’s vaginas. Comments, such as “black pussy is great.” Unfortunately, the negative tends to outweight the positive on these forums though.  All kinds of stupid comments about Black women’s vaginas come from these “men” who claim to be so repulsed by Black vagina.

Not only are the comments about Black women’s vaginas misogynistic, as if the only value that a woman has is what is inbetween her thighs, but they are racist. We could easily just attribute the comments of men such as John Mayer and anonymous forum posters as misogynisitic and not worth our time and thought anyway, but the truth is although a woman’s vagina is not her entire worth, our vagina is a part of our identity.

I wonder though if, underneath the surface of repulsion expressed by so many people in regards to Black women’s vaginas…is there a fixation, obsession and even fear or envy of our vaginas? Why do some men who claim to be so repulsed by Black women’s vaginas, think so much about our vaginas in the first place? Black women’s vaginas have been made into a fetish where there is  outright fear camaflauged as disgust and underneath the disgust there is, I believe, a deep envy and desire in some people. The fear of Black pussy, I believe, stems from our history.

It’s curious that some men would say “no one wants Black pussy,” when in reality many men of all races have always gone out of their way just to get to some “Black woman pussy.” Entire new ethnic groups have been birthed through the Black woman’s vagina. However, the historical conquest of Black women’s vagina has left a stain on the minds of men and women around the world.  For centuries, we have not been allowed to cherish our vaginas…our bodies because our bodies and vaginas were always being abused and misused by other people. Whether on the slave plantation or in the music videos. I believe when people make comments about Black women’s vaginas, it is an attempt to control, what they can no longer control. The more emancipated emotionally and physically Black women become, the more fearful of Black pussy other people will be. We now have Black women doing incredible things, breaking down barriers, advancing in ways that were inconceivable to many people generations ago and most importantly, we have Black women learning OUR VALUE and learning to love ourselves and this is intimidating to many people.

I see right through it all. Black women are and have always been just as woman, just as desirable and just as whole as any other ethnicity of woman? When you look at our vaginas, our wholeness and womanhood is inescapable and that’ frightening to some people. People have always tried to defeminize and dewomanize Black women. If they can discount our vaginas, that makes us appear less womanly and therefore their mistreatment is justified in their eyes. Judy Chicago created a work of art years ago entitled “Dinner Party,” the artwork featured plates of notable women in history where their vulva’s were made into symbolic representations of their identity. Each vulva highlighted the individual contrubtion that woman made to the world. It also served to uplift the bodies and sexuality of women. It was a great idea for artwork, but SOjourner Truth, a Black woman was the only woman at the Dinner Party without a vagina. In place of her vulva were three faces.  What does that say about the perception of Black women? Is it that society doesn’t see Black women as truly whole enough to have a vagina??

Or is it some big conspiracy to keep Black women in “our place,” by dewomanizing us? Deep down, does society know that we are just as desirable and coveted as other women…is this threatening to people? So threatening that even something as intimate as our vaginas is a matter of public concern?

127 thoughts on “Fear of Black Pussy

    1. I was just thinking this…I find it so funny how people go out their way to make us the topic of their discussion…although a lot of the times what we hear is negative, I find that as still the addressing of a fear of Black women…I believe it is because we are supposed to be the true rulers of this planet…we are so in tune with nature that we have evolved with nature and have naturally become the most equipped for survival here on earth…I believe that is why there has been so many actions made on behalf of those in fear of us to attempt to destroy us. But in the end we will prevail and overcome all obstacles thrown our way

      1. lol you sound stupid, did you know scientific statistics about racial intelligence suggest blacks are next to last of the least intelligent race? Youre not “rulers of women” think about that, no bodie is scared we just get annoyed by all the loud yelling and ghettoness you project on others. native women happen to be the most spiritual and wise of races, blacks are just ghetto and loud. most have lost their roots.

    2. I am a white man pretty much all but 1 of my girlfriends have been black and my fiancée is black so let’s just say anyone who says that kind of stuff does not know that they are missing out on. Seriously I have found that a majority of Black women are less arrogant, more independent, and less needy than white women I do not know why but it seems to be my experience it is like with women have an inferiority complex that makes them needy for compliments, materialistic goods, and the need to find a “trophy husband” or “trophy man” of some sort. I feel that Black women are more down to Earth and are just easier to relate to. Although technically I am not white I am Turkish, which I guess would make me Middle Eastern, but I digress. Also not to sound like a complete hypocrite but remember Human Beings are the only known species without a subspecies, meaning that regardless of race we are all genetically the same. My blood can go into and help save any races life if I see any race person being hurt I will try and help them so honestly let us all just get rid of these ancient notions of race, color, creed, and nationality and concentrate on the indisputable fact we are all People.

      1. Ehh “Trophy husband” is a man who looks for older women with money. So he can be their “trophy husband”, I think you meant “trophy wife” and no, White women in general are not “trophy wives”. Most are hardworking mothers who are just trying to raise their children right and make everyone around them happy, just like a woman of every race.

        Yes, you did sound like a hypocrite (but at least you admitted:)) since if you say all humans are equal and the same….why would you call white women in general materialistic and dependent? If you are talking about experience, maybe you met the wrong White women….and were looking for women who were very materialistic and depdedent.

        I have met Asian and Black women who were materialistic and needy…..since those are unfortunate characteristics found in some women of every race…

    3. that is such an unintelligent, ego drivin thing to say. no one gives a fuck about black people being black, at least not people with REAL inner power. I dont give a fuck what color you are I will treat you however the fuck you deserve to be treated Ive had to to make this clear to several blacks and quite frankly it gets old. and btw black girls vaginas do smell horrible, Ive heard it from plenty of men. :( get over it you stank lol

      1. As a white man, allow me to say with absolutely no experience whatsoever and just by reading your comments… Marlee, you are a racist bitch.

      2. Lol! Omgggg… Its quite ignorant and unintelligent to say a black girl pussy is stank because you HEARD it from many men. Ahaha If you dont wash the shit its not gonna smell good, that goes for any race! So stereotypical. Smh

    4. I don’t think black people, male or female, are really envied by many people at all. There’s just nothing to be envious of. Lower intelligence, shitty nappy hair, ugly ashy skin, loud bumbling manner of acting, rude, aggressive, ignorant, usually poor. What is there to envy? Am I missing something?

  1. The belief that black vaginas are different has been promoted by Africans who practice female circumcision or as others call it ‘female genital mutilation’. There is a difference based on skin color I have found. Darker women have a different taste and smell than lighter skin women. Darker skin has a tendency to be more pliant
    Black women have no history of being feared. They have been sold into slavery for millenia. In most countries, black women are taught to be submissive, but only in some African tribes are women allowed to have extra marital affairs a long as they are discrete.
    Somehow we have to discard this whole notion of race. It was established by Eugenicists as a means to .glorify the Caucasian to the detriment of the Negroid and Mongoloid. Biology teaches us that our differences are based on climate, diet and culture affecting one species.

    1. black women do have a history of being feared.Just do your research for knowledge is power.We are the ancient Nubians or kush people.We ruled Egypt,for thousands of years long before Rome and Greece and these secret societies in high places like the freemasons KNOW this!!why? because they worship Egypt-so they know black people’s worth and since they run the mainstream they put out stereotypes of not just blacks but other ethnic groups too to keep everyone hating each other.Where do you think they got the army of Anubis from?? Nubians! A-nu-bis! Read about the last African queen ya ashantewa my friend u will be proud to be African decent.i love bein black.We are the envy of the world. The world admire our hairstyles,our styles of clothing,our bodies and this goes for black men and women-they want our bodies,and our complextion because we don’t age and we’re less likely to get cancer.

      1. It seems like you learned “history” by reading shit on the internet, because most of what you’ve said here is incorrect. Egypt was not ruled by women for centuries. You are most likely thinking of Cleopatra, a pop-culture history icon, whose influence is largely exaggerated. In reality, Egypt was almost entirely patriarchal, primarily ruled by Pharaohs who were male. Women were, like in most cultures throughout history, treated as “servants” for the most part. Also, during the Egyptian reign, most of them were not “black”, they looked more like Arabs. This is evident to anyone with a pair of eyes, and access to any of the millions of depictions of people in Egyptian artwork. Overall there are just so many errors in what you said that it would not be worth the time it would take to type the corrections to those errors. For example “the world admire our hairstyles”…I mean, you have to be a complete moron to believe this. One of the biggest issues for black women, is their nappy hair, and they know it. That’s why so many of them wear weaves and extensions and attempt to make their hair look like the hair of a white woman. I mean, you don’t even have to be racist to come to this conclusion…it’s completely evident and obvious. Hair is definitely one thing that black people cannot try to claim others are jealous of. The black person’s skin is also general terrible. That’s why they have to use so many lotions. They get all ashy and gross looking if they don’t. Black people also possess the trait for sickle cell anemia, so not sure what your point about cancer is (I’m also not sure where you get the statistic that blacks are less likely to get cancer, sounds made up). Also, what is this about longevity? From what I understand “Native Americans” are the longest living race. I don’t think I’ve ever heard of blacks being associated with longevity, considering the rapid rates that they seem to die from a variety of causes. I think you might be trying a little too hard to make your race sound super awesome, as a form of “reverse racism”. In reality, you should realize that all races have flaws and benefits. Instead of saying “my race is so awesome and yours isn’t” just realize, we all suck and we all are awesome. For example, I find that a lot of white people smell like bologna. It’s weird, and I don’t know what causes it, but it’s gross. A lot of white people have extremely ugly teeth and mouth-structure. Some look like rodents, some look like pigs. What’s interesting though, is that if you sit down and list out of all these flaws for each race, you start to realize they exist in every race, and then you start to realize that there is no actual, real true way to define a race…because there are so many variations within each race. There are blonde and brunette white people for example. Some white people have curly hair, some have straight hair. Some white people are fat, some are skinny. Some are ugly, some are beautiful. Except for the blonde and brunette thing…could these exact same statements not be made about black people? There are some incredibly gorgeous black women, and there are some that literally look like gorillas. It has nothing to do with BEING black, it just happens to be that the person is black and has those characteristics.

  2. John Mayer may be an arrogant racist d-bag with hateful views toward Black women, this guy by the name of Machine Gun Kelly is worse. He disguise his compliments on Black women with racist/sexist comments. One woman took offense to his comments and was hurled down with racist slurs by that pathetic piece of humanity. Here’s the link below:

    http://httpjournalsaolcomjenjer6steph.blogspot.com/2012/08/mgk-interview-talks-people-and.html

    Both men disgust me.

    Stephanie Baldwin

    1. I don’t think MGK disrespected women as a whole or black people as a whole, they aren’t racist or sexist. He’s just being trashy. I didn’t hear any racial slurs at all, if anything he was being a little more disrespectful to white women saying they don’t perform as well in bed. The thing that stands out about that video to me is that the woman got SO EXCITED and thrilled to hear that black girls give the best head. A lot of women are not looking for equality in men’s eyes, they are looking for approval and to be considered the best. Half of these comments here are saying how black vagina is superior. I don’t know what these women expect when they feel so superior. If you feel that superior why is it so hard to accept that other races are also the same way?

  3. Renee from Womanist Musings has an excellent write-up on this pos on her blog:

    http://httpjournalsaolcomjenjer6steph.blogspot.com/2012/08/womanist-musings-for-machine-gun-kelly.html

    Also, one on the John Mayer’s rant and how it fits with the historical marginalization and degredation of Black women in America:

    http://abww.wordpress.com/2010/08/14/john-mayer-is-a-dixie-whistling-neo-racist-redeux/

    Racist fetishization disguised as compliments by MGK is disgusting and so is John Mayer’s rant.

    Stephanie Baldwin

  4. Black women are just different and EXOTIC! Many white men find that appealing but black men are used to see this all the time. For the most part though, black women do not desire white men— especially because of white men slavery

  5. Black women are just different and EXOTIC! Many white men find that appealing but black men are used to seeing this all the time. For the most part though, black women do not desire white men— especially because of white men slavery

  6. When I read your post, it reminded me of how some people try to make it seem as if Black women & White men dating is a bad thing. Sometimes, it feels like they’re trying to control the Black vagina through fear-mongering, proselytizing, bullying, and guilt-tripping Black women into dating within their race.

    It also reminded me of your other post on carrying the burden of all Black women on your shoulders. Rather than acknowledge the unique life experiences, wants, needs, and motivations of each Black woman, we’re treated like a monolithic group who has to “take one for the team,” and carry the burden of all Black people.

    As a double-minority (Black & female), I subscribe to ideas from both the BWE and the Afrocentric movements. It’s really sad that they bump heads in this regard. They could do more good, if only they worked together :/

    1. Well said, Claudia! However I don’t believe in Black women and White men dating because White people are our enemies. It is better to make them die out. Second of all, I am not opposed to Black women dating outside of her race but as long as he is not a White man. Last but not least, don’t think I am opposed to Black women dating out; as a Black woman myself, I do date Black females should date out but not date White men.

      1. Why do white people need to be killed off? Didn’t you do enough to us during the centuries in which you enslaved us, and forced us to work for you? You might believe that blacks who were slaves in the United States is somehow the only example of anything to do with black vs. white, but all that shows is that you are a complete idiot who knows nothing about history. White people didn’t enslave black people. White people bought slaves who happened to be black, who were enslaved by OTHER BLACK PEOPLE. Black Africans and Moors have the longest standing tradition of slave trading, and are responsible for almost 100% of slavery in human history. The Moors enslaved millions of whites, blacks, and basically every race they came across. They were black. Even in the United States, free blacks owned Irish slaves. Some blacks even owned other black slaves. Not all blacks in the United States were slaves, many were free. You really need to learn your history before you start talking about killing off an entire race of people. You should also be thankful for white people. Who else would pay for all the black welfare recipients? Where would the blacks be if not for white people? Still in Africa living as a slave (the slave trade is still alive and well over there) for a rival tribe most likely. Maybe getting their clitoris cut off by some animalistic chieftain. Stop being a retard, pretending that white people are your enemy, and go out and do something with your life.

  7. Way too much analysis here. Black vagina is not attractive to a non-black person. It’s not racist, only human nature to desire and prefer your own race.

    1. it’s not human nature to prefer your own race, people prefer their own race because they’re TAUGHT and socialized to do so, not becuz of anything inherent. black pussy may not be attractive to non-black person, but it sure as hell has been USED by men of all races, men of all races, ethnicites have always USED a Black woman’s body/vagina at their convenience, hence the brazilian mixed population, creoles, african-americans and the multitude of other mixed people who came largely from a black womans’ vagina and non-black (european, white) penis. don’t even get started on arab men and their misuse of the black woman’s pussy.

      1. That’s not necessarily true. It may be a genetics issue, actually. People grow to their environments, so they choose mates with the highest chances of producing offspring with the same survival capabilities. I’m not attracted to stupid people, for example, no matter what other traits they have, because in order to survive historically Jews have needed to be brilliant. We score above Asians on IQ tests, by the way. I tend to be attracted mentally first and not physically, which may be a reflection of my societal values or, as I prefer to think, of my genetic predisposition to seek the most intelligent and fertile man. Not really an excuse for evil people.
        (Now I have to forget I read this… good Jewish girls don’t read posts about things like this.)

    2. I am a black guy who actually prefers dating white girls. And it has nothing to do with their viginas. I agree that being human means sometime we blacklist those things which we dont understand and are yet curious about and more often than not we get others drawn into our sentiments by creating false legacies, tall tales that prevent others from trying that which we are to scared to venture towards. I have seen the best of both worlds and in truth i cant tell the difference. It is not to say that there aren’t any but rather that i choose to say all women as the same. Black women are culture driven and only in a few countries or maybe only the united states would you find black women willing to explore the totality of their sexuality. What you find in many African countries are home makers. Women with a single direction/goal to create a home regardless of how difficult that maybe. You could say they have thrown sexuality out the window. And even though much has changed in the world today, it is not so easy to change in a world where most black men expect them to remain home makers, to be more committed to the home even when they are not. This to a large extent may explain why there is growing trend of black women who prefer or would rather marry white men, .For this reason i find that most AFRICAN/ NOT AFRICAN AMERICAN are less excited about sex and less willing when it comes to creativity. But then as it also bothers on what exactly i define as creative or better still what i want out of sex or a woman’s vagina. I prefer dating white girls because they are not bound by cultural norms and or values. This is neither good nor is it bad, i just put it at what i prefer and what goes for me may not go for others, in the same vein this does not imply either of us has sex issues. In conclusion id say something i read up somewhere which may or may not be true. The way the world looks today it is as though the perfect mate for a white man is an African who woman, a woman who would actually treat him like he was her God and he would reciprocate that love because white men tend to do that more than black men. Like wise the perfect mate for a White woman is a black man, because he is larger and dominating. I dont know if totally true but my two cents tells me if it were then its a truth lot of people will deny or choose not to talk about. Who knows.

  8. This is unfortunate because as a
    White male, I LOOOOOVE black women in every possible way. So much that I could never see myself with another woman of any race. Not only are their vaginas beautiful but so is the rest of them. A person is a person and I, Nigel , love black ladies. ; )

      1. So hypocritical speak for yourself all im reading is black woman like this and that. How about using I because every person is not the same black or white.

  9. I used to stress about this big time, but not anymore:

    I like knowing that my black pussy brings fear to those spineless wimps who are too insecure in their own manhood to think otherwise. I can spot them from miles away and all I can do is laugh and keep it moving. I know that I am an attractive, sexy, confident black woman, and it gets under the skin of spineless wimps because THEY want to be the one to validate me, without me having a mind of my own.

    You notice how a lot of men hate the confident black woman, because they want to deem you what they want to. If you come already equipped with a strong sense of self, this leaves them inadequate. Like they cannot contribute anymore because we already know who we are without their concensus.

    I already know that they all come from a place of cognitive dissonance, so they have to hurt us first before their fragile egos get shot down by a race of women that they deem inferior.

    Thank goodness I know different.

    Great Article!

  10. I am a white male age 37. My wife is black. I love her for her. Generally speaking black women are far more attractive than white women,black pussy looks great,smells great taste great feel great. Not to say all black women are cool or all white women aren’t. But as for me on the physical side. Black is beautiful. My wife is awesome and delisious,lol. There tons of negative stereo types and racism. Always was,and I recon always will be. Screw them. Be u

  11. Yoitzme is clearly mistaken. I, a white man, feel quite strongly that there is one type of person who is always amazingly gorgeous. Fortunately or unfortunately, it is a black woman; I don’t care how much she weighs, I don’t care if she wears no makeup; she makes me melt and just imagine. Your facial features are shapely, deep, and striking, your skin is always impossibly young, your curves are drop-dead insane when you are not too thin, and your flavor is utterly exquisite. Your feminine mystery is only accentuated by the contrast in your incredible eyes and the perfect satin texture of your body’s surface, taken to the highest by your soft and gentle lips. I hope you all forgive me that when I see you in the world; that I am conquering lust for you in my mind and soul, and I can never help but imagine how beautiful our children would be despite myself. My wife is from Kenya and the most beautiful of all, dark, lovely, caring and intelligent. I love her and I have never been as attracted to a white woman. If this makes me racist I suppose I have no defense. Thank God for what Africa has nurtured and protected these many centuries.

      1. It’s hypocritical that if a black man said that about an Asian woman you’d all say he’s afraid of black pussy, he’s a self hater, etc etc. Black women who do this are destroying what people have worked so hard for.

    1. One type of person? Females in one race don’t all fit into the “one person” category and they don’t all look the same. I feel that you should or are talking about your wife but your wife does not represent a whole race of women. Everyone is an individual and I feel that you are actually in a way degrading individuals by categorizing them into your* preference…and in a way sexualizing them.

      And if you have a wife who you love, why are you lusting after other women? “I hope you all forgive me that when I see you in the world; that I am conquering lust for you …..” you are making it sound like a fetish:/

      1. I can see how what I wrote could look like a fetish to the supposing eye, but I confess my words fall short of my feelings once again. Doesn’t matter does it? If I describe someone so specific to whom I am attracted, is it a fetish or precise description? Should precise descriptions of one’s attractions be avoided, lest they be deemed a fetish? Know the term “conquering”? It’s thankfully unlike failing. My condolences your SO if you are not still actively attracted to their ‘type’ and yet still *choose* (as love always is) to honor them above all.

    2. It sounds like a fetish and I think it is, since you focused so much on outer appearances and threw in a couple of words to describe inner beauty. Someone could be describing their fetish, and being very precise about it. Both go well together.

      I have no type and I believe having a type that focuses so much on outer beauty is a fetish, plain and simple. Having a personal preferences that focuses on a single race of women (still is a focus based on outer appearances) is narrow minded. My type is focused on inner character above all. My love has to be kind, intelligent, has a sense of humor…those are types but they are not as narrow minded as your type.

      You can do whatever you want and love whomever you want. What I do care about is that people mistake their fetish to be sincere.

  12. I am a white male and have been with both black and white women and every women’s vagina smells and tastes different and they are all different looking but yet they are all beautiful.

  13. For me, Whether or not a woman is desirable has nothing to do with race. What makes a woman beautiful is her personality and her mind. Sure, I may not be physically attracted to someone who doesn’t exercise and stay in shape but that’s my personal preference. As for the vagina aspect of this post, I love looking at beautiful women when they are naked.

  14. I am white Irish/English (so I was told) and my wife is black. I have dated many races and yet married a black woman. Love has no Boundaries and racism is just fear and ignorance. I have had more negative attitudes from Black men then anyone concerning our relationship though.

      1. @Peanut
        No, racism is not fear and ignorance, Peanut. White people know that they benefit from the White supremacist system that gives them advantages over non Whites. Don’t make their assumptions tell you otherwise.

        Racism is a system where Whites have economic, social and political advantages over Blacks and other non Whites based on their White skin much to the disadvantage of minorities in this country.

  15. I’m an Italian male, 27 years old. I generally don’t find black women attractive, as well as most asian women. When I was in high school, and very girl obsessed, I had a black female friend, and she was very pretty, not just according to me, many people said the same thing. I look back and I find it very odd, that I was able to be myself with her, be open, and get close with her right away, where as with a pretty girl who may be white lets say, I am beyond nervous, and could never be that comfortable. Thinking back, if she would have tried to pursue something with me, or just flat out tried to hook up, I think I would definitely have felt “weird” about it. I guess the artical is right, black pussy is kinda scary. I really do believe that as far as our primitive perceptions, a complete contrast in what color you are plays some sort of role in things. I could tell you that if I was hooking up with a black girl tonight, I would certainly be apprehensive, and not just 100% sexually focused like I would be with a girl of whatever color I have been with. Is this out of fear of the unknown? Could it literally be as simple as people just like what they like? I should mention too that I have actively sought out black pornography in the past, and again, same thing with it not really being a “turn on” for me… I really don’t know. What I can tell you is that I know as a “typical white guy”, that black pussy is definitely a taboo subject, and maybe cause it’s just so drastically different than what most average white guys are used to, it becomes a topic to say degrading things out of ignorance. It’s much easier to say that black pussy is gross, than to be real and admit that your curious, and don’t actually know what black pussy is like. In closing, I also feel strongly that a lot of black girls are very different than a lot of white girls, and that could be a part of the equation. It’s the same concept as if a typical white guy was to go to Ireland lets say, they would not be used to these girls at all, they are something completly new to him. I dunno, I’ve been hit on by black girls several times, they seem to like me more than white girls do actually (maybe they are just more forward), but I always passed it up, thinking that it’s too weird, it’s too scary I guess.

  16. I am white and I much prefer black vulvas. For whatever reason I find it more attractive and more arousing to me. Including the pubic hair. Whereas I am not that attracted to any other pubic hair, I much prefer that a black woman keep some of her pubic hair as it is appealing to me visually and in texture. The color difference between the pink/reddish inside and the darker exterior is also very attractive. My emotional feelings for the first black woman who’s vulvas I saw may have played a part as well.
    But I mean really there’s hardly any difference.

  17. @Christina – This may sound cliche, but it is the bottom line. You have to see yourself as beautiful. Otherwise, your insecurities will project and have the effect of making you unattractive in the eyes of perceptive men, black and white. You not being attracted to black men is no surprise. Especially, if you cannot see the inherent beauty about your total being, vagina, hair, lips, nose, buttocks, yadda, yadda, yadda. If you can get over that hump, try being open to finding a black man that you are attracted to and have enough confidence in to allow yourself to be vulnerable enough to trust. Give him a chance. Hopefully, you’ll be pleasantly and passionately surprised.

  18. Well you do know, you’re not going to get any real perspective on the general public feeling for black women’s vaginas from your own group of readers, who of course are going to take a really positive spin on other people’s negative feelings. “They are just in awe of our power and beauty” are the types of responses you are getting, and that’s silly and wishful thinking – especially considering the reality of the hateful world we live in.
    I can answer the question for you, from my perspective as a non-black / non-white woman. And I will tell you that I ended up here because I googled “black vagina looks bad.” It’s something I never really ever thought about, never would have considered what a black woman’s parts even look like – until one day I wanted to look at porn. Yeah yeah, whatever, we all do it. So as I said, I’m not black or white, which always leaves me in an awkward position (in my opinion) even when deciding simple things, like what kind of porn I want to watch since it almost always features black or white men and not Indian or Asian or Middle Eastern. So I decided to shake it up and look for black men in porn. Now, I wasn’t thinking about the woman and wasn’t thinking I should specify what color the woman is. I never considered how different we all really look in our vulva. Naturally a lot of black male porn has black women in it, which I didn’t really mind either, so away I clicked. And I watched that porn, for a few minutes I guess, but I just could not get into it. I didn’t even realize why right away. I started to think, maybe I just dislike seeing two black people having sex? I moved on, found another porn and vibrated away. A few weeks later, same situation, I wanted to view some porn. At this point, I was looking at mostly interracial porno since most of my real life relationships are interracial being as though my ethnic group only has like 1% of the total US population. So I’m looking at interracial porn and I ended up opening one that was a white man having sex with a black woman. Again, I never had considered before to not watch porn with black women in it. It seemed fine with me at first, so I opened it, watched some and started getting that disgusted feeling again. That’s when I realized it – it wasn’t that I didn’t want to watch 2 black people having sex, it was that I couldn’t stomach looking at black vaginas. I don’t have a problem with black women, or black hair texture, or black power, or black love, or black pride. I’m cool with all of that. I just get sick at the sight of a black vagina. It’s just unattractive to me – in the way that other physical features are unattractive to me and perhaps most people – such as crooked teeth or too-pale skin, or double chins or acne. I find “ginger” people to have quite an unattractive look. I’m not afraid of them, I don’t believe they should be treated differently, I don’t feel envious of their “power”, I don’t dislike them, I just find those physical features to be less attractive. That’s how I feel about looking at a black vagina. It’s just unattractive. It’s not powerful, it’s not intimidating, it’s not that I feel angry at black women, it’s just that I think that purple-brown color is quite ugly. The look of it is a little revolting, and I don’t want to describe in what way because it would be vulgar and insulting. It does look a bit dirty or just off. Mashed up, dark and just unappealing. I never really considered the color of a woman’s vagina when looking at porn before, but after seeing a couple of black vaginas, now I’m really conscious about it when I look at porn. It’s not just a one sided thing either, I think I tend to prefer to see the vaginas that look more like mine, which is in-between. Not the bright pinks and reds of white girls, not the dark blackish purple of black girls. And while the bright pink and red vaginas are not appealing to me exactly, they don’t gross me out the way black vaginas do. I’m not in an interracial relationship with a black man but I’m not opposed to it either. I’m not opposed to black people. I just don’t want to see a black vagina, ever again in my life. And that is a bit bothersome, knowing I’m not racist and not opposed to interracial dating with a black man – knowing I could one day give birth to a girl who I think has disgusting and repulsive lady parts. That upsets me. I wonder if I’m being ugly, or if it’s okay for me to think that black vaginas are ugly? Is it just a physical preference or am I being totally wrong?

    1. its interesting that u say you’d date black men well last I checked black men come from black vaginas the same vaginas u are disgusted by. I don’t care much about white females and wouldn’t want a white male as they come from them and that would be a contradiction. I’m a straight female and don’t care about looking at another womans privates, i’d want to just see the man, I don’t watch straight porn cuz the women ruin it with their fakeness and sometimes dirty feet. I do enjoy some erotic stories and maybe pictures as it is more tasteful and passionate. porn is unrealistic, and its just too much fakeness for me. u think black vaginas are ugly well if u are a straight female i’d think u wouldn’t be focused on the female but the males. I don’t like white vaginas, Asian, etc. does that mean I hate vaginas no, I just like my own and don’t care to see another womans as i’m more focused on the male.

      1. Only woman who like other woman’s vaginas are lesbians Nd bisexuals . I’m straight I watched gay porn straight porn interracial porn and I was disturbed by all races of woman’s vagians ..eww but I found the dicks attractive especially the long ones . And I love when a man rubs his dick . It’s so attractive . I’m just saying shouldn’t straight woman not like vaginas personally I only like my own vagina.

      2. But being attracted to black men doesn’t make black vagina become more attractive just because black males are passed through them. The point isn’t that black pussy doesn’t have VALUE, the point was that it is unattractive. I don’t see why you’re upset since you are also saying that you don’t like non-black vaginas. You feel the same way Inga feels apparently.

    2. and this ”
      knowing I could one day give birth to a girl who I think has disgusting and repulsive lady parts”

      first of all what the f@@k. who the hell worries about what their child privates are going to look like. if anything most ppl worry about how their child will turn out and if the child is going to be healthy and cute. wtf u gonna do change the diaper and be staring at ur childs privates and say u know that is nasty? lord its some perverted as mothfkas in this world. the best thing to do is not have a half black child then spare urself and that child the hurt and embarrassment.

      1. Most normal parents worry about what their children are going to look like, period. Privates are part of that. Your thought process and the way you talk and type let me know that your background and education are poor.

  19. Great post. As a Black female, I would only sleep with the right man who loves me for who I am and cares for me genuinely and I want to be married to him one day too. I haven’t found the right guy yet but I will only give my virginity for the right guy who loves me for me not a jerk. And when I marry a man, nine out of ten times, he has to be a Black man.

  20. @Kumiko

    I think it is better for people to stay within their own race if they want to date or marry someone. As a Black woman who is socially aware of racism, White men should not even cross our minds as romantic partners because:
    1) They are enemies and oppressors
    2) Most White American men are very racist and look down on Black people
    3) We have nothing in common with a White American male and we can’t relate to them culturally in any way possible or form
    4) Most of them wouldn’t understand our struggles with racism and internalized racism in this racist society.
    5) They aren’t even fully evolved human beings for crying out loud! They are unevolved, Neanderthal cave men who originated from the Caucasus Mountains over near modern day Russia and Siberia.

    As a Black woman, I would much rather date a Black male but if I can’t a Black male, I would date a Latino or Asian male. No White men for me!

  21. I am a white male and I am completely in love with the appearance of a black woman. it is very exciting to me to lay down with my wife who is black.I love her publics her smell and her the same In short we fuck like wild animals I will never want any other race.

  22. Lol.. Its cute how woman discuss their private parts… I am white European and I soon marry black African beautiful magical cute girly gurl… I had in my life white, asian and black girls.. But I love my black the most of all. I could not live for rest of my life with non-black woman. For me there is something really special about black woman love. Only black woman can deliver that. Woman is woman but they are different with race and ethnicity. They are not all the same. Black women are more or less different from other women, but I like that. From what I know and what I see with my BW/WM couples friends, black woman can really turn it up side down for white guy. And if that white guy goes for black girl its really serious stuff. White women see that, and even though majority of white guys will date white women, there is some population of white man who have this passion for black girls, and you cant turn them away from that. So there may be some fear of black women hooking some white men. Black women are mostly also very strong without being sorry azz, but unfortunately more of them learn now to be spoiled whorz from white women. And then there was a lots of racism through out the history, but that is going away. There will always be a rivalry around IR mating, but that goes the same for black guys who dates white women. There are tensions from both white and black female camps. I would just give it a chill and just focus on who you date and not who others date. Woman or man ho is hooked up in relationship should not be interested in what the opposite sex of their race is doing. I am happy with my black woman, I dont care if my white female friends date black guys, why should I care…

  23. If you cannot watch several interviews, show, etc, and see that there is definitely a difference in the black woman’s behavior in a social setting, than you are blind..I love all women, but women from different backgrounds regardless of their color act very differently. As far as vaginas, I love those period. I want to experience all the world has to offer but really, making an issue about black pussy being boycotted or something is just nuts, if someone feels bad about themselves, they need look no further than their own mind. You are whatever you decide you want to be, choose awesome and leave ti at that…

  24. Black pussy remain the greatest and i love it so much that i can suck,lick again and again. But am yet to fuck white pussy and am longing for it soon,then i shall know the difference compare and contract.

  25. the first female majority parliament in the world is in Africa more precisely in Rwanda my country, in Africa there are three women head of state, in Rwanda 60% of the economy belongs to women since the end of the 94 Tutsi genocide, it has caused a social revolution wich has seen a rise in sugar mummies and male prostitution( since women have more money) so black women are indeed strong even dominant.
    as for female genital mutilation, it is most practiced in Egypt and Yemen ill have you know, in my country we don’t cut women clitoris, instead they elongate their smaller “pussy” lips to increase sensitivity wich makes skirting an ordinary or a should say essential part of sex for Rwandan women, making a Rwandan woman orgasm through vaginal penetration only, is very easy because of that.

    Africa is big continent of 54 very different countries, you could fit in 4 USA in Africa keep that in mind
    i could eat black pussy all my life and never get enough

  26. Very few vaginas are particularly aesthetic. As a white man who enjoys watching copious amounts of pornography I think I’ve looked at just about all types of genitalia, male and female. I think one of the problems with black women’s vaginas is this tendency towards an extremely dark pigmentation of the labia, which exaggerates the wrinkly aspect. The great thing about black pussy (bear in mind I’m only talking about appearances here not any other value) is if it is a tidy symmetrical vagina the contrast from brown to pink can be beautiful.

    If it’s any consolation my misogynistic critique of women’s ‘bits’ can be easily countered by the fact that men’s privates almost all look like the ‘last turkey in the shop’.

  27. I really want to say It all boils down to programming .When I go to a website I type something freaky in the search engine it always shows thousands of pictures of In shape white girls. Hardly any sisters and if they are they are fat and Ugly. I know we have beautiful women but society has had a fixation with blonde since the Roman Times when they used to buy and sale Germanic slaves hair. People are always attracted to rare . But I will swear to you sisters one thing that boggles my mind . I am a fairly good looking Light skinned brother who loved black women and chased them allot when I was younger. They never paid me no mind or played games with me allot in the time being. Well while they were playing games allot of white women found me attractive and gave me shots at their vagina. I swear I hardly ever came while I was having sex with them.I would usually have to fantasize about someone else or get great head , which they are good at. I have to tell you I am not racist Its just the facts to me .You have great vagina I came quick, allot with black women . I don’t know if you do exercises or just have Rhythm when you screw. I suggest you all take better care of your bodies. Stay away from pork , Juice vegetables and continue to keep your vagina’s clean and stay humble and you will return to your thrones as queens of the earth.

    1. The fascination will never die. It’s not fair to women, but white women with blonde hair and light eyes portray more purity, visually. Men want to sexually corrupt that. They want to feel like they’re the first, although most white girls with blonde hair and great bodies are sluts. White women with dark hair are seen as sexual sirens, and white women with red hair was once even seen as evil.
      This mindset is why black women are seen as trash or the lowest, because of all their dark coloring.
      Women have been used, picked on and judged since the beginning of time, but women are the ones that are hard on women. Men will fuck anything.

      1. Women are hard on women, and women have always been sexualized. I think what black women need to pay attention to is that non-black women who do not fit the “blonde hair blue eyes” mold are not out here “penning open letters” about it and making a big deal about it. Black women should quiet their collective voice some and stop drawing so much attention to things like this, it’s really not even a big deal.

  28. Black pussy is the best,tigtiest and great…unlike white pussy tht smell like rotten fish or spoiled beans…mmmmh…damn urgly like a toy or battered beef..i hate white pussy…walahiye talahi..

  29. I agree as a white women it’s stupid and a dark vagina suits dark skin, pink vaginas suit light skin.
    However, the comments down here are ridiculous, I would never envy any other race as I love my own.
    Men have preferences and just because many love pretty pink vag’s doesn’t mean they should in turn discriminate against the attractiveness of darker ones

    1. This is how it is way too often. Non-black and white women will come to show unity with black women and we get told how 2nd rate we are, how ugly our skin and bodies are, how inferior we are, how they are the most powerful people on the planet and blah blah blah. I get it, because black women were marginalized for so long they are just trying to express power, but they are just stepping into the shoes of their oppressors and naysayers. They have drawn a line and told us to get the F out, that they are the best women at everything all the time. The black female voices who don’t agree with it get drowned out.

  30. Peanut says: “black pussy may not be attractive to non-black person, but it sure as hell has been USED by men of all races, men of all races, ethnicites have always USED a Black woman’s body/vagina at their convenience, hence the brazilian mixed population, creoles, african-americans and the multitude of other mixed people who came largely from a black womans’ vagina and non-black (european, white) penis. don’t even get started on arab men and their misuse of the black woman’s pussy.”

    I couldn’t agree more. Brazilians got their African blood through a black pussy and they are certainly not the only ones. All the black and mixed Afro-Latinos, Afro-Carribeans, African-Americans came from a black pussy. Not to mention the African islands such as Réunion island, Cape Verde island, Madagascar island and Mauritius island where people are HEAVILY mixed. These non-black men didn’t just use black pussy abroad they also used it in black women’s own home: Africa.

    Arab men used it a lot too, but at least they freed their black female slaves once they birthed their mixed children. There is an important North African arabic minority in my home country and I have an arabic girlfriend with frizzier hair than my biracial black/white niece. I have another arabic friend with a typical African pear-shaped body. These traits they inherited probably came from a black pussy since arabic slave masters didn’t even allow black men to reproduce and castrated them. Also, a genetic study (not in English) says most Southern Europeans have between 1% and 3% of black African blood and that they most likely got their black African blood from mixed North African arabs when they ruled Southern Europe during Muslim conquests.

    Even Chinese men that live in Africa marry and use young black pussies now. Black pussy was the MOST used pussy on Earth to the point of CHANGING the genetic map of the world so “some” non-black men at some point PREFERRED it over non-black pussy. Only those in denial would say otherwise because it’s very easy to find living proofs of used black pussy, especially in the Americas and the Carribean.

  31. “disgust and underneath the disgust there is, I believe, a deep envy and desire in some people”

    i stopped reading this dumb articular after that statement because it made absolutely no sense. if you think something is “disgusting” there is NO envy or desire. if your right are not being violated then you should just stfu about racism and stop being so sensitive.

  32. Look, truth hurts sometimes.
    I’ve never seen a pretty black vagina.
    It’s not racism, it’s just true. Black womens vaginas always reminded me of brown horses vagibas and buttholes. They look the same.
    Like bulldogs….I think they’re so ugly. I don’t hate them, and I love dogs, it’s just the truth.
    But what does it matter who thinks what of your vaginas? Men will still fuck you, and you’re never going to convince the masses that black pussy is pretty…..so just get over it.

    1. vixenstjames said: “Look, truth hurts sometimes. I’ve never seen a pretty black vagina.”

      Why would your opinion hurt when your opinion ISN’T the truth? That’s why we call it an OPINION, it’s subjective unlike an absolute truth.

      vixenstjames said: “I’m not attracted to Asian men but I think they’re great people.”

      So you’re probably either a woman or a gay. That makes your opinion even more worthless to most black women. Thanks for posting though.

  33. Let’s just remember that everyone has a right to be attracted to what they’re attracted to. Don’t judge a lesbian for being turned off by dick, and don’t judge anyone for being turned off by black pussy. This is NOT a race thing, it’s a sexual preference.
    I’m not attracted to Asian men but I think they’re great people.
    It’s just personal preference.

    1. “Let’s just remember that everyone has a right to be attracted to what they’re attracted to.”

      On this we agree, but don’t try to make your personal tastes a general truth when it’s clearly not. MILLIONS of men and women worldwide do NOT share your opinion.

  34. Hun, your posts should be more publicized, because I have learned a bunch of things that I had never heard of, and that I am sure a lot of Blacks are uninformed of… I am a female, black teenager, and I won’t forget what was said in this blog :)

  35. For one thing, black women scores 10/10 for boasting. Lol. If you lot were truly ‘rulers’ of the planet, then why is it that africa is so economically, and socially backward. Continued genocide, murder, and rape is more of a common issue over there. Everything, the roads, households etc are all backward, and relatively filthy. Yeah true ruling, intelligent, and creative ppl we got there imao, who knows how to morally live. Haha

    1. @ Griiiim,

      Because of colonization of Africa and the fact that white men stole resources and enslaves blacks then took all the wealth they accumulated back to europe and america and destroyed the identities, culture and economic practices across Africa. See Leopold of Belgian Congo as one great example.

      Thanks

      also this is a great resource (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zRLXH8EE5bA)

  36. I’m a white male. In my opinion, black women, like with all other races, have a variety of “pussy” types. Some are quite appealing, some are quite nasty. I’m going to assume this is the case with all races in general. For example, some white women have a really nice tight little pink pussy, it looks really clean and pleasant. It might have something to do with me being white, but in my opinion the absolute best kind of pussy is very light pink around the labia and bright pinkish/red inside. I find a dark colored labia less appealing (probably just a personal thing). Some white women have this thing that looks like someone put some roast beef through a meat grinder, burned it, and then sloppily slapped it in between their thighs. With black women, it’s about the same with regard to variety (nice ones and not so nice ones). The only real difference I would say is the “ashy” thing. Some black pussy seems to have a bit of ashiness around the labia, but that’s probably more the fault of the person having poor hygiene than a race issue. I just know that black people tend to get the ashy skin more than white people, so I’m sure there is some connection there. That being said, I’ve seen (and felt) some bomb-ass black pussy. Also, black women (in general) have some amazing fucking lips (mouth). I mean, damn! They can seriously kiss (and suck a mean dick). I would say the lips thing is probably true of almost every single black girl, no matter how fugly. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a thin-lipped black girl, and that’s pretty awesome, because it’s kind of a major turn off for most males.

  37. I am a black female and I am very insecure about my black vagina. I am only attracted to white males (black guys r cute too just not my style) and I feel the they would find me repulsive. any tips???

  38. I don’t know why my first response posted ABOVE your post, but I have more to say. If you can visualize men as sharks, you should know that insecurity is like blood floating in the water. The sharks can sense it from a distance and use it to their advantage. Only the rare one that loves you will look beyond it, love you in spite of it and not use you. It may be that the very guys that you’ve been kicking it with have just been having their fun with you. Love thyself!!!

  39. Just one more thing… I forgot to say that you ARE beautiful. Sight unseen, I know that you are beautiful. I know that your “stuff” is beautiful. If you can find one of us real, down, self-loving, our-people loving black men, he will find you beautiful and love you in spite of yourself. I wish you the best sista.

  40. why do you think they would find you repulsive? here is what i have to say, as a woman, your vagina belongs to you. you control your body and to allow a man into your body is an intimate thing and a privilege and any man who doesn’t appreciate or value that privilege doesn’t deserve you, period.

  41. I am white male fit and often referred to as good-looking have been dated several black women and am married to one now and I think black vaginas are beautiful .so stop worrying girl I’m sure yours is no diffrent

  42. Yeah! Don’t worry yourself.
    Men will think your vagina is fine.
    And most white girls have ugly junk too. Just flip through some porno pics….white can’t grow their own tits or asses, and they have nasty lips hanging all out of their snatches….and to top it off most of their vaginas are open a little. They gape. So they’re not tight.
    You’re normal. Don’t stress.

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